Set the values for each of the options
<select id="aioConceptName">
<option value="0">choose io</option>
<option value="1">roma</option>
<option value="2">totti</option>
</select>
$('#aioConceptName').val() didn't work because .val() returns the value attribute. To have it work properly, the value attributes must be set on each <option>.
Now you can call $('#aioConceptName').val() instead of all this :selected voodoo being suggested by others.